What can I do differently?
What is good about this problem?
How can I make this better?
How would my “grandfather” (or someone else you admire) have handled this situation?
What talents do I have that I can capitalize on?
Who do I love/who loves me? Who am I doing this for?
You are a child of God and he wants to rain down his grace upon you. Don’t let worry fill your thoughts, when you find yourself worrying… stop yourself and worship, pray, seek, ask, knock and believe that the answers will be given to you.